Don't do this 7 things after a Breakup (Must Read!
Don't do this 7 things after a Breakup (Must Read!
1.) Calling and texting your ex constantly. I swear that 90% of all of the people who email say the same thing… that their ex dumped them, that they feel like shit, and that they’ve been constantly trying to contact their ex BEGGING for a second chance. This is a massive mistake… and it’s a massive mistake even to call them ONCE.
3.) Mistake number 3 –While this may SOUND like it would work, it DOESN’T. Being your ex’s doormat is ridiculously unattractive and it’s only going to make him or her respect you even LESS. If you really want to get someone to desire you again, they have to respect you. Which brings me toooooooo…
4.) Mistake number 4: getting hysterical if you find out your ex is dating someone new. I know, this is may be one of the most painful situations to go through in life, but it isn’t as awful as you think it is. If your ex is in a relationship with another person directly after your breakup, they’re in what is known as a “rebound relationship”. And typically speaking, these rebound relationships don’t last… so what you need to do is simply weather the storm and wait for the perfect opportunity to get your ex back.
5.) Mistake number 5 is… showering your ex with gifts and affection. Again, this is another counter-intuitive mistake. Like the last few mistakes, showing your ex that you’ve put him or her on the metaphorical pedestal is MASSIVELY unattractive behaviour. So don’t buy your ex gifts, don’t make them presents, don’t call your ex showering him or her with compliments. Just no, no, no! Not now!
6.) Desperation isn’t the only emotion people feel when they’ve been rejected… sometimes they just feel rage! So mistake number 6 is lashing out at your ex.
7.) Mistake number 7 is obsessing and overanalyzing the situation with your ex. I know, easier said than done, right? All you want to do is just read old text messages and old letters trying to figure out where you went wrong and how you can fix it. Just stop this now.
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